Some culture shocks are big. Many are small and show up every day: how close someone stands, how carefully people wait their turn, and what “on time” really means.
Personal space
In conversation with acquaintances or strangers, Americans usually stand about an arm’s length apart. Touching someone you don’t know well, even a light touch on the arm, is uncommon. On crowded trains people accept closeness, but still avoid leaning on others.
Lines
Waiting in line is serious business. Cutting in is considered rude, and people will say something. If you’re not sure where the line starts, ask: “Is this the line?”
Being on time
| Situation | What’s expected |
|---|---|
| Work meeting | On time or a few minutes early |
| Job interview | About 10 minutes early |
| Doctor | 10–15 minutes early for paperwork |
| Dinner reservation | On time; tables may be released |
| House party | 15–30 minutes after the start is normal |
| Wedding | Before the ceremony starts |
Running late?: Send a quick message as soon as you know. It matters more than the delay itself.
