Getting invited to someone’s home is a real sign of friendship in the US. A few habits make you a guest people want to invite again.
RSVP
Reply even if you can’t go. If you want to bring a partner or friend, ask first. Hosts plan food around numbers.
What to bring
- Dinner party: wine, flowers, chocolates or a dessert
- Potluck: one dish that serves several people
- Not sure? Ask, “What can I bring?”
- A dish from your home country is usually a big hit
Dietary questions
Vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free and nut-free diets are common. At a potluck, add a small card saying what’s in your dish. If you have restrictions, mention them when you RSVP.
Shoes
Many American homes allow shoes inside, but more and more don’t. Look for shoes near the door, or just ask.
Leaving
When other guests start leaving, it’s a good time to go. Thank the host on your way out, and send a short thank-you text the next day.
