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Networking and informational interviews in the US

Why many jobs are filled through referrals and how to ask for a 15-minute chat.

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For newcomers without a US network, networking can feel like a closed door. In practice, most Americans in professional jobs are happy to give 15 minutes to someone who asks politely and specifically.

What an informational interview is

A short, informal conversation with someone in a role or company you’re curious about. You ask questions to learn. You don’t ask for a job.

Good questions

  • What does a normal week look like for you?
  • Which skills matter most in this role here?
  • How did you get into this field?
  • What do you wish you’d known starting out?
  • Is there anyone else you’d suggest I talk to?

Following up

Send thanks the same day. A few weeks later, share a quick update on what you did with their advice. If a relevant role opens, it’s fine to ask whether they’d feel comfortable referring you.

Frequently asked questions

Is it okay to message strangers on LinkedIn?

Yes, if the message is brief, specific and respectful of their time.

How long should an informational interview be?

Usually 15–30 minutes.

USA Life Nest Editorial Team

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